Pillow Talk Blog
Articles & Videos by Jodie Shea. Read to learn more about relationships, sex, and more!
How One Partner’s Trauma Shapes the Couple
Trauma doesn't exist in isolation. It lives within the relationship system. When one partner carries a history of Cumulative Childhood Trauma (CCT) – experiences like neglect, abuse, or witnessing violence – the effects ripple far beyond their own internal world....
Understanding Asexuality: Why It’s a Valid Identity, Not a Disorder
In my work as a sex therapist, one of the most common questions I hear from women exploring their sexual identity is: "Is something wrong with my libido?" This is absolutely a valid question, especially in a culture that often frames sexuality as essential to health,...
This Is Why Neurodivergent Couples Just “Get” Each Other
For many neurodivergent individuals, the world of romance can feel like a "complicated world to navigate." Traditional dating rules and social expectations don't quite fit. But emerging research across psychology, neuroscience, and social studies is revealing a...
New Year Reset: Building Emotional and Physical Connection
As we enter 2026, many of us are setting goals around fitness, finances, or career growth. But what about one of the most meaningful aspects of your life... The emotional and physical connection you share with your partner? True intimacy isn't just about attraction or...
How to Develop a Code for Instant Support at Family Gatherings
The holiday season is often painted as a period of perfect joy, but for many couples, it likely presents a unique "stress test" for their marriage. Between competing family obligations, financial pressure, and the effort of creating a "perfect" facade, research shows...
Why You Need to Stop Whispering About Erectile Dysfunction
The condition we all know exists—but nobody wants to talk about. Erectile dysfunction (ED): the inability to get or keep an erection firm enough for sex (specifically penetrative sex) —is something most people have heard about. Maybe from commercials. Maybe...
Beyond “Thank You”: Gratitude’s True Relational Currency for Resilient Love
Build unshakeable relationship resilience. Learn the skills (like The Sun Exercise) to ensure your appreciation is felt. Schedule a free consultation.
When Everything Feels Off: How Relationships Can Survive—and Thrive—During Universe Shifts
Have you been feeling some weird stuff going on lately? I definitely have! I’ve never really identified as a spiritual or “woo” person but throughout my life, there have just been things that surpassed coincidence and just seemed like a pattern. I have come to refer...
5 Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship
Recently on Instagram and our newsletter, we posted a list of five signs you’re in a healthy relationship. I wanted to speak more about this to help you understand why these things tend to matter and what they mean. You trust one another. Trust essentially...
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